Choose Your Circle Wisely

If you consider yourself a leader or want to be, this is for you.

As you navigate high school, balancing academics, sports, and social life, have you ever stopped to think about the people you surround yourself with?

The truth is, the company you keep can significantly influence your journey to success. 

You Are Who You Hang Out With.

Imagine stepping onto the field or court, surrounded by your teammates. Now, think about your friendships outside of sports. Are they pushing you to be your best, or do they hinder your growth? When you surround yourself with individuals who share your ambitions and goals, you create an environment that fosters growth and success. Hanging out with those who are negative, unsupportive, or lack ambition can drain your energy and motivation. It's like trying to run a race with weights strapped to your ankles. Being around toxic influences can lead to self-doubt, discouragement, and ultimately, a detour from your dreams.

The Power of Positive Influence

If you want to excel in your sport, you need to be around others who are just as committed. Picture this: a group of athletes who share the same mindset, pushing each other to improve every day, continuously celebrating wins and supporting each other through the lows. It’s inspiring! You’ll find yourself training harder, striving for excellence, and embracing the process. On the flip side, if your friends are indifferent or negative, their attitudes can seep into your mindset. You might start to question your own abilities or lose sight of your goals. Remember, success is contagious, but so is failure!

Show Me Your Friends…

There’s a saying that I heard more than I wanted to as a high school athlete... “Show me your friends, and I’ll show you your future.” This couldn’t be more accurate. If your circle includes ambitious individuals who strive to be the best at everything they do, it’s likely you’ll adopt that same drive. However, if you find yourself surrounded by those who are self-conscious, toxic, or lack ambition, it might be time to reassess. Ask yourself: Are these friendships helping me grow, or are they holding me back? As young athletes, it’s crucial to make choices based on long-term goals rather than fleeting emotions. Yes, it’s easy to get caught up in the moment, especially in high school, where friendships can feel all-consuming. But remember, your future is built on the decisions you make today.

Start planning your path to success. Visualize what that success looks like for you—whether it’s earning a scholarship, becoming a team captain, or excelling in your sport. Whatever it is, write it down and create a plan to achieve it. I adopted the motto "Work today for a better TooMorrow!" Make the right decisions, develop a plan, and work efficiently and diligently to reach your goals.

Need Guidance?

It is easy to be consumed by your current environment. The truth is, not putting in the work now can lead to missed opportunities later. Whether its falling behind in your training, struggling to balance academics and sports, or not reaching your full potential, the consequences can be significant. Seeking guidance is crucial for navigating these challenges. A mentor can provide you with personalized insights, help you set SMART goals, and keep you accountable. It is also valuable to listen to their experiences for the potential of saving your from common pitfalls.

How Can I Help?

If you’re feeling a bit lost or unsure about your next steps, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. At TooMorrow, we’re passionate about educating and mentoring young athletes like you. Head over to our website to schedule a free phone consultation [www.mytoomorrow.com] where we can discuss your current situation and set you on a solid path for your journey.

Remember, the road to success is paved with the right choices. Choose your circle wisely, find a mentor, and stay focused on your goals, and watch how your life transforms. The future is yours! #YourTooMorrow

Khary Bailey-Smith  

Founder & Executive Director, TooMorrow LLC